Our expert says:
Sounds like he's being used by his ex and ex-inlaws ? Its nice to be friendly, but occasional halping out should go both ways, surely. Ex wife's hubby probably doesn't care because he doesn't see it as anything threatening, and it saves him work ! And picking up dry-cleaning, etc., is PETTY, and shows no respect for him at all. And its disrespectful towards you and your marriage, too.
Of course you're not a horrible person. This is not a good idea, at all. They need to learn that for him to lead his own life, and also to enjoy his own wife and family, is not to neglect them. It's OVER for the previous relationship, and unfair for them to have and to express expectations like this.
Presumably you have calmly discussed this with your husband, who, while he may not be bothered by this, should recognize that it is very reasonable for you to be bothered by it. If this is not something you have been able to work out between you with good will, maybe some sessions of marriage counselling would be a good idea ?
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