Our expert says:
Lets see what other readers have to say. As I understand it, if you are the biological father, you are probably due to pay maintenance for the child ; a court ought to take into account the expenses, your earnings and hers, and to look at what you are alrady paying. As she is also employed, she must also be expected to contribute to the costs of the child's needs. You may benefit from having a fair amount decided by the court, to make it more difficult for her and her mother to keep making additional demands.
Similarly, ask the court to grant you a specific amount of contact with the child, so they can't withhold this from you
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