Our expert says:
It usually takes people much longer than they expect, to get over a relationship that has ended, especially if it wasn't a happy ending. And maybe its more complicated because his previous relationship was with a relative of yours - there's always the possibility that he may have hoped to use this new relationship with you as a way of getting back close to his previous gf, your relative.
If his mom would allow her into her home at all, let alone to wait for him in his bed, (a) she's a rather odd mother, and (b) she musy be convinced the relationship is not over.
Everything you say proves they are still in an active though stormy and manipulative relationship, and sadly none of it sounds as though he loves you. Give it up and move on ; you deserve someone interest in you alone ; this episode is obviously just one of their long series of pretending to break up and then getting back together
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