Our expert says:
I think you should see a marriage counsellor - with or without your husband. You obviously have not yet come to terms with the betrayal. At the same time, remember that it will take time to develop new trust in the relationship. I know this does not really help to soothe your feelings - but how you look, what you weigh or what your hairstyle looks like is not what causes or prevents infidelity - just look at Tiger Wood's ex wife! She's blond, she's thin, clever, rich and beautiful and was cheated on. It often comes down to either a problem in the relationship or just the choice of the cheating partner to be unfaithful. You can get help at any marriage counsellor (look in your local yellow pages) or FAMSA (http://www.famsa.org.za/)
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