Our expert says:
Its hard to understand how people act, at times. You'd have thought she would have told him at the time, or that his parents, or even hers, woul have told him. One really must wonder WHY she would think of telling him NOW. What does she want ? Its not even support for the child, or for him to meet the child, as apparently the child died some time ago. Its hard to see what useful purpose would be served by continuing contact with the ex GF - if she felt no need to inform him or involve him earlier when it could have been so much more relevant and useful, there's little purpose now. Your viewpoint is entirely reasonable.
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