Our expert says:
Are the twins from the relationship with the person he recently broke up with ? If he is the biological father of the twins, his ex is not entitled to refuse him access to them, and while you don't have specific rights of access, she is also not entitled to lay down the law about who may see the children while they are with him. Maybe it would be useful to have access rights decided and enforced by a court. A maintenance court would decide what it is fair for him to pay ( and it might be less than he is paying at present ) and his access rights don't depend on him paying maintenance. What a bitter ex has to face is that such access is intended for the benefit of the CHILDREN, and not to enable her to satisfy grudges.
And she has no right meddling in his life or spying on who visits him.
But overall, you would be wise to reconsider the whole matter, as i doesn't sound as though he is socially, legally or psychologically free from his previous relationship and free to form a free relationship with you.
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