Our expert says:
The traumatic circumstances and events and the lack of emotional support during the termination is obviously still with you. By the sound of it you also have some unresolved emotions regarding your last relationship. Trust on en emotional as well as physical level seems to be aspects that need to be explored and dealt with. I do not think you are insane. On the contrary I agree with you that you need to consult with a therapist that specifically deals with sexual concerns. The physical pain that you describe can also be very strongly related to tension that enhances pain during intercourse. Regarding your little girl: It is important that you explore first what you need and then you can make decisions. You are the biological mother and the more you are emotional stable to more you can be there for your baby.
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