Our expert says:
First, he should not have been scrolling through your phone, without your permission. If he thinks studying and taking exams is "having a nice time", obviously he's never taken an exam.
But then, his attack on you was illegal and criminal and intolerable.
This sort of immature, violent, insecure fool is dangerous, and there is no point in staying with such a person ; but take care to leave only in the safest way that can be devised, and anti-spouse abuse groups like POWA may be able to help here, as can family and friends.
You can lay criminal charges against him ( if possible get witnesses and have photos taken of your injuries ) and you can get a court interdict forbidding him from approaching or threatening you.
This isn't actually about your innocense, but his insecurity. And your discovery of his obviously improper messages to another woman, which strongly implies infidelity, suggests he may be trying to blame you for doing what actually he is doing. It has nothing to do wih your mistakes, but abusers are skilled at persuading you to blame yourself when it is they who are guilty.
Have a medical checklup and chest X-ray ( you may have cracked a rib ) and again, get the injuries and (tell the doctor exactly what happened ) on record.
This man is not okya, and it is not okay that he be allowed to remain married to a woman he can beat up when he feels like it.
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