Our expert says:
IF you have to keep on carrying all the major costs of the family, AND subsidize his business, he does not have a viable business, and this is a hobby, not a business. How can he expect you to run yourself into debt to cover his lousy business skills, and not even help you to repay the debt ? Why are you crying and feeling awful about the debt, and not him ? If he knew everything, his business would be flourishing.
I tend to agree with Kathy, and I don't agree with LOL about encouraging such irresponsible and selfish behaviour on his part, in the name of love. Youmarry for better and worse, no for worse and worse.
He has NOT invested so much in the current failed business --- YOU have. And why can't HE get part-time jobs, rather than you, the breadwinner ?
You are entirely right to refuse to continue financing him and effectively giving him blank checks. No bank would do so. Liza's suggestion of proposing he get Business COunselling first, is an excellent idea. Why does he feel he's doing you an enormous favour to even consider getting expert advice he very obviously needs. If he was as brilliant as he seems to think, his business would be flourishing --- even in these times, many businesses ARE flourishing
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