Our expert says:
Good responses all roung. Your behaviour is indeed excessive. In 6 years of very close snooping by you, this guy has never done anything wrong - and you insist you can never trust any man. Boy, are you over-generalizing from whatever few bad experiences you have had so far. It's like saying that SOME of the many things I have bought in supermarkets have been unpleasant, so, instead of just being more careful about what I get, instead I declare that I will never again trust any supermarket.
And yet you have snooped on him for 8 years or more - should he decide that he can't trust any woman, because of this ?
It's good and recommended security practice for anyone to periodically change their passwords, not necessarily a sign of anything to hide. Its also why we don't usually paint our passwords in large letters on the front wall of our house.
See a CBT therapist to help rid yourself of this paranoid-obsessive behavior and free yourself up to spend the energy on actually living and enjoying life.
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