Our expert says:
It;s very understandable that after such a long relationship, and in the absence of their bio-pa, your ex's kids look on you as a father and want to maintain a relationship with you. You and your ex should calmly discuss this and consider what would be best for the children.
Your exgf needs to think deeply about the kid's benefit, and find together ways for them to maintain a relationship with you that is good for them, and not to allow her own feelings, bitter or otherwise, to interfere with that
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