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Posted by: zanna | 2011/06/11

ek soek raad

ek het laas jaar november my ex gelos en van daai tyd af wil hy my nie ophou pla nie. so 2maande gelede toe gaan ek op facebook in net vir die grap en tik sy naam in. ek sien toe n foto van hom en n ander vrou op sy profile. toe ek hom se eks bly hy het iemand anders gekry gooi hy toe die foon in my oor neer en sy tik toe vir my n email. nou toe ek weer opgaan se hy die was alles net n manier om my terug te kry en hyt my eintlik lief. hoekom kan hy my net nie uit los nie. hyt my erg seergemaak en ek sal hom nooit hom terug vat nie. hoe kan n mens so met iemand se gevoelens so speel en dink dis alles n grap. ek wil niks met hom te doen he nie. het ek reg opgetree?

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You could go to the police or magistrate's court and get a court order which forbids him from approaching or contacting you in any way ; and if he ignores that, it's contempt of court and he could even go to jail.
But it makes no sense, grap of nie, to seek him on facebook and send him messages about his current relationship. If he's an ex, it's none of your business and should be of no interest to you if he is now going out with a goat.
You say he is bothering you, but it sounds as though you are also bothering him. Why on earth contact him at all ? How can he leave you alone if you don't leave him alone ?

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Posted by: CS01 | 2011/06/13

Zanna, come on vrou!! Wie probeer jy nou eintlik flous? As jy " regtig"  niks met hom te doen wou gehad het sou jy hom glad nie eers gebel het of enigsins selfs na sy Facebook profiel gaan kyk het nie of hoe?? Toe nou word groot!!

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Posted by: cybershrink | 2011/06/11

You could go to the police or magistrate's court and get a court order which forbids him from approaching or contacting you in any way ; and if he ignores that, it's contempt of court and he could even go to jail.
But it makes no sense, grap of nie, to seek him on facebook and send him messages about his current relationship. If he's an ex, it's none of your business and should be of no interest to you if he is now going out with a goat.
You say he is bothering you, but it sounds as though you are also bothering him. Why on earth contact him at all ? How can he leave you alone if you don't leave him alone ?

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