Our expert says:
So, though this happened 5 years ago, she was his gf then, too ? As you know, sometimes in life another person will tempt you to do something you know is wrong, but it is possible to resist temptation. So, even if she did try to seduce you, that doesn't excuse your betraying your friend. And don't say " I could not say no" - you COULD have said no, but you chose not to do so.
Sadly, maybe there are good reasons why he should be cautious about trusting her - but your decision to have sex with her makes it impossible for you to be credible if you tried to warn him.
I hope you have learned from the experience, at least to avoid making such bad decisions in future. YOu're probably right that you have lost this friendship, and he seems to have behaved so well towards you, before and after.
Will he, at some time in the future decide to forgive you and make friends again ? Possible, but not likely. Maybe if he finds her being unfaithful with someone else he may re-evaluate the earlier episode
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