Our expert says:
Sex is like a dance - you need to know where your partner is in order for you to know where you are going. What I'm referring to is the need for you to check in with him during sex and ask if he can hold off. Men have to learn to control their ejaculation; this does not happen automatically. Incidentally, the average time to ejaculate without doing something to prevent ejaculation is 2 minutes - so he's quite normal in that respect. What is confusing is why he has lost this control - it could be an infection (bladder/urinary tract), anxiety, or another reason. Instead of asking him straight out about this as a problem, ask him about how he delays his ejaculation and prompt him to do so (if he knows how) - if he says he doesn't know how; he can learn this and you could support him to do so. He probably has noticed because you aren't enjoying sex as you used to - so rather bring this up gently (you could even say that you are taking a while to get into the swing of things nowadays and yo
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