Our expert says:
A very highly significant part of the problem in alcohol and drug abuse is the extent to which the individual manages to convince himself / herself that they are NOT dependent or abusing, and to avoid taking proper personal responsibility for their actions and for the reactions these cause. HE should be the one contacting rehab programmes and making the arrangements.
Sounds like he's also exercising a skill common in people in such situaions, of projecting guilt ( which he ought to be feeling, himself ) onto others like yourself. Don't accept the invitation to feel guilty. And read up about Enabling, which may be part of what you have been doing.
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