Our expert says:
This is about fantasies, not reality. He's an Ex who at one time you LIKED, not loved. When you say that at the time you couldn't make it work between you, this sounds as though he was much less interested in you than you were interested in him. Everything is convincing within a dream, so the apparent sincerity of the emotions felt within a dream don't prove these emotions are real when awake.
Dreams usually don't have profound underlying memories that need a dream archeologist to dig up ; recurrent dreams suggest only very simply that there may be concerns similar to the pattern of themes in the dreams.
Dream therapists or interpreters are utter quacks, and every cent spent on them is wasted. That's a fact. I strongly disagree with dd that dream therapists "need to make money" - they should rather take up honest work and earn money by providing a genuinely helpful service rather than by feeding fantasies.
However, it might be useful for you, and money far better spent, to see a counsellor to explore your marriage, your feelings and wishes, and to understand yourself more broadly.
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