Our expert says:
One of the major problems with an alcoholic is that you can never do it for him - nomatter how hard you try to help, its really ultimately only HIS sincere efforts that count. His problems are HIS responsibility, not yours
IF you want a divorce, in this situation you could surely have one - its not up to him to decide whether or not you can. but the court. Get proper legal advice. Keep looking for a job for yourself, and explore whether you could stay withfriends or family until you find a job and can support yourself.
If he happens to lose clients he has so far successfully fooled into thinking he's the sort of good man he isn't, that's his fault and his problem, not yours. Get proper help for yourself - you deserve it and wil make good use of it.
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