Our expert says:
I NEVER know if I'm the right person ! However, let's see if I can help in any way.
Generally, it's wise to be cautious about relationships with anyone on the rebound --- soon after a divorce or messy break-up, beause they are more vulnerable than usual, and may plunge in without enough caution and thought, while still being very wrapped up in dealing with their own emotional turmoil.
From your decription of what's been happening between you, he seems to be blowing hot and cold, and unsure of what he wants. He may well have commitment issues, maybe he's ambivalent about getting in too deep too soon in any new relationship, there could be other reasons. Maybe it's a tactic ( and it's working, in so far as you are intrigued by it )
For Pete's sake forget the current fashion for "confronting" people --- confrontations are very rarely useful. What's wrong with simply sitting down quietly with the guy, and explaining calmly as you just have in this message, what you are finding puzzling, and asking for his thoughts on the situation ?
The information provided does not constitute a diagnosis of your condition. You should consult a medical practitioner or other appropriate health care professional for a physical exmanication, diagnosis and formal
advice. Health24 and the expert accept no responsibility or liability for any damage or personal harm you may suffer resulting from making use of this content.