Our expert says:
To demand to see your accounts when you hesitate to ive her money is simply greedy and impertinent --- does she show you all her accounts when asking, to show that she deserves any such gift ? She's old enough to manage her own money problems, without expecting handouts. Discuss this calmly with your husband, and agree jointly to ignore these requests and nosy queries. Agree that as soon as she calls and starts to gossip about you, he must immediately hang up on hr. She sounds unoccupied and bored --- why doesn't she get more work to do, to keep herself out of mischief ? And tell her calmly but firmly, that she will have nothing to do with raising your childre, and will receive no more gifts of money from either of you, so she had better begin managing her own affairs better. She has no right to expect you to respect her, when (a) she obviously does not respect you, and (b) she acts unrespectably, not deserving of respect.
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