Our expert says:
If you'll check the archives of this forum, you'll find I've discussed the porn issue so many times. Porn viewing as such need not mean anything bad about a relationship, so long as it supplements rather than substitutes for the real-life relationship with you. Chatting to other people online is more worrying, but rarely goes further into real-life --- it's like a dog chasing a car --- he enjoys the chase, but hardly knows what to do with a car if it stops.
But again Liza is right --- marriage counselling would be a wise investment for the pair of you when he gets back ( foreign business travel is so expensive that, especially with jet-lag, he's unlikely to manage anything sinister ) and maybe start some indiidual counselling sessions for yourself in the meantime, to work on your self-esteem and self-confidence.
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