Our expert says:
I think one needs to LIKE oneself, but whether a ormal love affair with oneself is needed, I'm a lot less certain.
Maybe these people are referring NOT to you being unpleasant to others, but to your inner unhappiness being visible to them. The sort of goals you sensibly outline would be best met by sensible counselling / psychotherapy.
Pity that A-"nonnie", usually pleasant enough, chose to offer some venom this time. I wonder why this issue upsets her so ?
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