Our expert says:
Sounds horibly like a recurring pattern. From your story, he has brokebn up and reconciled with you, and done the same with her several times, and is now trying to do it with both of you at once. Rather indecisive, and very unfair to both of you, and especially to the child. He sounds immature, too.
Only you know how you feel about all of this,but you may still be "over him" while still with him.
You're not going mad, but maybe you'd benefit from seeing a counsellor to work out what you want. And this is important is it's very clear he doesn't know what he wants
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