Our expert says:
Oooh, gosh, I really should take a week's leave to read through such long posts !
The granny wanted 500 thousand rands to care for her grand-child ? Good grief ! And she wants to go out gambling instead of caring for the child ?
If you need help caring for your child, wouldn't it be more reliable and convenient to hire a nanny, preferably someone with some training in child-care ? Then you'd be more in charge of the situation ( you can't fire a granny !)
Sounds like some sessions of marriage counselling would be helpful, perhaps enlarging into some family therapy sessions including his mother ?
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