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Posted by: Zippo | 2010-04-12

Do i need help

I''ve got a question,probably a bit stupid but here goes.I''ve got a issue with the size of my penis.My GF says that i musn''t worry,it is not small and i''m just imagining it.I mut admit when it''s erected its above avarage but normal it is really small.I''m too shy to shower naked at the gym..! How can i fix this,do i need to go and see someone?

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you can only extend the length of a penis by a plastic surgeon. they will charge you a small fortune, and it will only result in minor improvements when your penis is flacid (in most cases, your penis stays the same size when erect after plastic surgery). you should not be concerned though - as you mentioned - smaller penises when flacid grow to a much larger size when erect than the average penis.

remember, your biggest sex organ is the skin and most powerful is your brain. in both accounts, the size of your penis is never an issue.

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Posted by: girlgirl | 2010-04-14

The size of a man''s penis has never worried me. You guys seem to forget that the size of your penis isnt the only thing that matters to us women. Its the whole experience....its the closest 2 people can get...so I wouldnt worry about the size!!

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Posted by: ANON 4 this 1 | 2010-04-12

Yeah i dont believe size matters as long as u know how to work it. I had a Bf who was 2 years younhger than me, he had a huge package, didnt know how to move it though. i ended up hating sex with him coz he was causing me pain no plessure!

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Posted by: boomsie | 2010-04-12

hei willie en zippo!
amper nie gesien jul het goeie advise nodig hierso nie.
nou op die nipper!
nommer 1!!!!!!! en ek se dit hoe lank al vir my man ook, size dont matter baby!!!!!! kom ek stel dit so, se maar jyt hierdie freekin groot tril, maar jys yskoud in die bed, weet nie hoe om te muff of vinger nie, weet nie hoe om jou vrou te betas en sexy te laat voel net deur aanraaking nie, is jy armder as boemelaar.!
nr 2 ek was eers met my man se broer vir jaar deurmekaar voor ek my man ontmoet het. nou ek en die broer was soort van net vriende met voordele, dus het ek nie sy familie geken nie. nou ja, die boetie het n moviese tril gehad, en ekt gedog wow ekt die tril van die jaar gekry , maar op die ou end het dit net te borring vir my geraak want hy het nie eers bietjie gespeel binne my met daai ding nie, dit was net , in en uit in en uit, hahah boring, maar nou ja, eventualy het ek die broer (my man) ontmoet lank na ek en sy boet opgehou jol het, en my man was altyd skamerig en gevra of ek sy broer se groot tril mis, dan vra ek hom net, hoe hy dit nog kan dink, i mean, ekt groot tril gelos vir korter ene, maar die korter ene doen wonderwerke vir my!!!!! nie net is die bietjie korter tril great binne my nie ,maar hy laat my soos n goddess voel as my man eers my begin betas en vat en voel en vryf en lek..ensovoorts, praat lekker my privaat dinge hier uit, maar nou ja julle manne het advice gekort, en ek wat seksueel slim en warm is het net gou vir jul die bom kom drop.. meeste girls verkies kleiner ene wat kan! so by all means as julle die ander dinge reg doen kan jule julle girls en julself meer pret verskaf!
vergeet van die ou storie bigger is better.. want dit was iets wat lustige virgin kinderagtige dogterkies verkodig het.

sterte ouens en gaan maak jul women proud vanaand!

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Posted by: Woman | 2010-04-12

Gentlemen, you both seem to have decent sized penises. Really. More isn''t necessarily, well.. more. Just go read up on the women who write to say that they''re in pain because their men are huge. Personally 12-15 cm''s are more than enough.

And anyway, it''s more about what you can do with it anyway! For women,s ex is not about the actual time we spend having it, it''s the whole experience that counts. A good lover will have brought a woman to orgasm before he even enters her

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Posted by: willie | 2010-04-12

Baie dankie zippo vir jou belangstel in die debat. Dieselfde vir my ook wanneer hy pap is , is dat daar amper niks is nie...ditto. Baie dankie aan Buddie en ?? se hulp met die aan geleendheid. Sorry nice guy i will try and make my post next time in you language. Thanks anyway. Zippo as jy ooit iets uitvind hoe en wat ons te doen staan laat weet my gerus asb!!!

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Posted by: Buddie | 2010-04-12

Moet nie sleg voel oor jkulle penisse nie,ek is ook maar aan die klein kant en my vrou geniet hom al vir 37 jaar en sy se daar is niks fout met die outjie nie.Wanner styf is ek omtrent 16 cm, die ding kom as hy slap is, dan is daar omtrent niks nie, so moet nie sleg voel nie,as jou g/f dit geniet is alles in orde,ek het in die army so sleg gevoel om uit te trek voor die manne met die kannone, maar voor jy jou onderbroek uittrek gee die ou so ''n rek dan is hy nie te klein nie.And to NIce Guy,forget about old Julius here we talk about something that is close to everymans hart, I have a black friend and tells me and ask me lots of thing about sex, he is 25 and shy to talk to his dad so we have lots of dicussions.

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Posted by: Nice Guy | 2010-04-12

Hope i am not offending anyone, especialy with Julius Malema''s drama on everyone''s lips. i am struggling with afrikaans

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Posted by: ?? | 2010-04-12

Die gemiddelde penis grote in SA is 12 cm, so julle moet gevlei wees dat julle groter as die gemiddelde is. As n persoon bietjie vet is, is jou penis genyg on in te trek as hy pap is en as jy sit soos in die bad. Daar is belangriker goed om oor bekommer te wees as jou penis.

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Posted by: Zippo | 2010-04-12

Willie,ek is bly om te hoor ek is nie die enigste 1 wat so voel nie.Ek is ook in die omgewing van so 14-15cm maar die probleem kom in as ek nie erected is nie..! Dis vir my so erg dat ek nie eers voor my verloofde in die bad wou sit nie.Ek het egter met haar daaroor gepraat en dinge gaan al beter maar ek kry nog tye wat ek baie skaam en sleg voel. Ek wonder ook altyd of die skoner geslag nie net my gevoelens wil spaar nie!!

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Posted by: willie | 2010-04-12

Ek voel al vir jare soos jy Zippo en ja ek ken die gevoel en kan mos duidelik sien dat meeste mans wel groter is as myne. Soos in die gim het ek al baie op getel dat dit werklik so is. My penis is ontrent 14cm lank as hy heeltemal erected is. Hoe vergelyk dit met joune?? My vrou kla glad nie maar vir my bly dit nog altyd n persoonlike issue. Dit voel of ek nie manlik genoeg voorkom nie en dat byvoorbeeld my vrou net my gevoelens probeer beskerm en my nie wil seer maak nie. Sal graag van soveel as moontlik wil hoor wat julle te sê  het. As nice guy eerlik vir my kan sê  sal ek dit waardeer want dit bly n sielkundige probleem.

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Posted by: Nice Guy | 2010-04-12

I don''t think you have a problem, even if you think you have there is no penis enlargement, very ungortunately it''s something you have to live wth for the rest of your life. Atleast its working properly and your girlfriend is happy with it. Do not worry be happy.

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Posted by: sexologist | 2010-04-12

you can only extend the length of a penis by a plastic surgeon. they will charge you a small fortune, and it will only result in minor improvements when your penis is flacid (in most cases, your penis stays the same size when erect after plastic surgery). you should not be concerned though - as you mentioned - smaller penises when flacid grow to a much larger size when erect than the average penis.

remember, your biggest sex organ is the skin and most powerful is your brain. in both accounts, the size of your penis is never an issue.

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