Our expert says:
Divorce support expert
as human beings we like what is familiar. This is why so many people live unfulfilled lives and remain in dysfunctional relationship because it is what they know and change is scary.
However you initiated change already and discovered how good it was, yet you went back because familiarity was somehow reassuring to you.
You are the designer of your life. You have a choice and it is your choices that will determine the quality of your experiences.
Make a list and compare your two experiences: with him and without him -
The other concern you need to urgently raise is his physical abuse to both your son and yourself. You owe it to both of you to be safe and this doesn't like a safe environment, let alone an environment to have another child with this man.
You must put your son's and your safety as a priority on your list. You have a right to be respected and be safe!
I wish you all the best
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