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Posted by: CARLA | 2010/01/22

divorce!!

Is it possible that after 21 years of marriage and two kids one spouse can say that he feels that the spouses are not compatible.
Or could there be other reasons...

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During a marriage of any duration, either or both partners tend to grow and develope, possibly in different directions. In really healthy marriages, they can enjoy this and the relationship, too, can grow and develop. Otherwise marriage counselling can help them both enjoy each other's changes, and maintain the core of a happy marriage. But that requires the sincere participation of both partners.

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Posted by: XXX | 2010/01/22

Unfortunately it does happen, as we get older we develop and grow in different directions.The secret is to find the common ground and work on the positives.
Of course there can always be other reasons for " helping"  this along,an affair being one.
Try to talk to your partner and remind him of all the good times and what is it he finds lacking now.
Good luck

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Posted by: cybershrink | 2010/01/22

During a marriage of any duration, either or both partners tend to grow and develope, possibly in different directions. In really healthy marriages, they can enjoy this and the relationship, too, can grow and develop. Otherwise marriage counselling can help them both enjoy each other's changes, and maintain the core of a happy marriage. But that requires the sincere participation of both partners.

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