Our expert says:
I'm not sure who "everyone" is. Not all divorces actually produce the enhanced situation everyone involved in them might hope for, but they may be a good idea in some situations, especially if both of those primarily concerned are realistic about what can and can't be achieved.
Of course the children are very important - bu they may well be better off following an amicable or at least peaceable divorce than in a miserable marriage maintained under the illusion that this is inevitably to their benefit.
Neither bitterness nor finanial turmoil is inevitable. Couples counselling undoubtedly helps some people, but one cano generalize as so much depends on the specific individuals involved and their attitudes towards each other, towards being helped, and towards sincerely wanting to improve the situation.
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