Our expert says:
Where there are problems like this of recent onset, there is a better chance of sorting things out and returning to an earlier and better level of functioning. But reaching a better level than you have EVER functioned within the relationship is a far more challenging prospect.
Obviously your situation is very frustrating, but now more understandable from these recent comments - if this is how his entire family did function and still do function, he may have had no opportunity to experience let alone learn any other way of dealing with problems, and may be bewildered by the suggestion that there are better ways of doing it.
Unable to face or deal with the main issues, of course he tries to nit pick, to find some little nits to pick at which are less frightening for him.
Be strong and work ou what is best for you and the children, with the support of a counsellor if necessary - and a good lawyer to protect your financial interests and those of the children
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