Our expert says:
What you did, the affair and the spiteful breaking up of the other relationship, was bad and mean. Yes, you should surely tell your husband, and get into marriage counselling, if he will agree. How silly can you be to believe that the friend cared more about you by giving you things when he was trying to persuade you to keep having sex with him ? That was lust and strategy, not caring. You did betray both of them, should feel apologetic, and not be surprized if neither of them want you, when they discover what you are capable of.
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