Our expert says:
Surprised to hear there is such a maket for a male gigolo / male prostitute in SA, as there are so many people eager to provide such services for free. And how sad that his ex gf are so desperate for sex that they feel they need to pay him for it. It is indeed likely that he will contract HIV/AIDS if he insists on living this way, and nobody but he himself can prevent that. His family are either irresponsible in not caring, or perhaps they have tried for years, and given up. He has given you no reason whatver to have any respect for him --- respect ought to be earned, within a relationship. As yby says, make sure the maintenance court forces him to pay maintenance from his earnings, however earned. And make sure there is never any sexual contact between you and him, as nobody else ought to be exposed to the risks of HIV and other STD through his chosen behaviour.
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