Our expert says:
Of course he knows where he got HIV - it didn't arrive in the post. It is possible in a problem marriage to work things out, but never when only one of the couple is sincerely trying to do so. And it often needs expert help from a marriage counsellor.
Sex shouldn't be a chore, especially when the promiscuity of one spouse has made it physically dangerous to the other, due to his HIV - that alone is enough to reduce the libido of his partner. Sorry not to be very cheery, but it does take 2 to tango, and he has to do his share, and make more effort, and agree to proper help
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