Our expert says:
Within a couple relationship, ONE person can't sort out the problems you both have - couples counselling may help, but only if BOTh people sincerely take paert and actually want it to succeed. SO now you find he has been cheating on you and lying to you. If possible, see a counsellor to help you deal with your raw feelings and plan what is best for you and your child - he has made his needs irelevant to you now. And he and you must remember, he is liable in law for paying full fair maintenance costs for the expenses of the child until she reaches maturity, I think at 18 years of age - you can't just make a baby and then walk away.
Deciding that he doesn't love you any more is no excusxe for behaving so cruelly and selfishly.
Do consult a lawyer as soon as possible - such as at the free law clinic most law schools at universities have. I think also some attorneys provide an initial free 30 minutes consultation to advise you of your rights.
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