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Posted by: Wish | 2010-06-22

Desperate to have a child

I am a 34 yr old woman, and have a 10 yr old daughter, now I having high urge of having another baby with my new hubby. I had a child with my ex boyfriend at the age of 24. I really want to have another child, just to add more siblings to my daughter and also for my hubby. I’ m now so obsessed with other peoples small kids, I wish they were mine, I stop people at the malls to admire the kids. Now always after intercourse with hubby, maybe after two weeks or so I will buy a pregnancy test to check if I might be preggies, but no luck, I will cry without him noticing, and pray that I conceive. I am now so forgetful since it’ s always on my mind, he has asked me what the problem, and I was honest but he never seemed to worry, he is relaxed, not so stressed like me. Please help.

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Do you feel an urge to have another child, or specifically to have one with your new husband, now you have married him ? How does he feel about this ? Would the child really be for you ? Or for him ? Or for the child's own sake ?
It does sound as though ou have become perhaps too obsessed with this issue, and stressing yourself in this way often actually reduces fertility. Consider seeing a counsellor to help you get al this into perspective and to get more relaxed about it. Then if nothing happens after 6 months or so, you could consider seeing a fertility specialist to check that everything's OK

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Posted by: Wish | 2010-06-23

Hey you GG - Gentle Giant (LOL), its about me here, he is not even bothered for us to have kids or not. I need to have a baby period...... Baby maker my foot...........

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Posted by: GG | 2010-06-22

Are u married with this new hubby or u are just baby maker

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Posted by: cybershrink | 2010-06-22

Do you feel an urge to have another child, or specifically to have one with your new husband, now you have married him ? How does he feel about this ? Would the child really be for you ? Or for him ? Or for the child's own sake ?
It does sound as though ou have become perhaps too obsessed with this issue, and stressing yourself in this way often actually reduces fertility. Consider seeing a counsellor to help you get al this into perspective and to get more relaxed about it. Then if nothing happens after 6 months or so, you could consider seeing a fertility specialist to check that everything's OK

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