Our expert says:
I keep geting the impression that a lot of people with not a shred of actual business talen or the necessary knowledge, want to start businesses, often with wildly unrealistic ideas about how easy it will be, how little work they expect to have to do, and how much profit they expect to make.
With all due repect to religion, praying is not a business tool of great effectiveness. IF you don't work correctly and wisely, I doubt that God will intervene to make a brilliant success out of a mess.
I entirely agree that it is not your duty to support his parents - and I hear that recent scientific developments mean it is actually possible for a woman to wash and set her hair herself, rather than it being actually constitutionally compulsory for her to go to a salon.
COnsidering my own budget and those of other people I know about, I am surprised it could be so hard to come out on R 30,ooo a month - there are so many people managing on R 30,000 a year, or less. Maybe you should sit down with an advisor at the bank and check on your budget, cut out anything not essential, and start to get things together financially, too. And if he is unemployed, can't he do more with the household chores, including looking after the child ?
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