Our expert says:
Sad story, S though what happened proves he was a heel who behaved dishonestly towards you, so he was much less of an actual loss than it may have felt, for you. But you really ought to see a good local counsellor / psychotherapist to work through this, as it sounds as though you have become far too fixated on this, in ways that interfere with your freedom to carry on and find the happiness you deserve in life.
What happened to you proved HIS worthlessness, not yours. Your value and self-esteem must not depend on his frivolous and selfish views or thoughtless behaviours.
You are allowing your future to be held hostage to a stubborn holding on to what isn't, wasn't and won't be ; preventing you from finding what still can be.
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