Our expert says:
There are issues I wonder whether your psych is dealing with, but which may need to be worked on.
Maybe indeed your husband doesn't love you anymore - but it sounds rather more likely that you don't read or recognize the ways in which he naturally expresses his love for you, just as he doesn't read or recognize the ways in which you express your distress.
Also, you may be expecting more from someone like him than he is capable of giving, and the shrink should concentrate on helping you to become self-sufficient, with the support and understanding of others as an agreeable bonus rather than a necessity.
You describe in several ways your frustration at aspects of your hurt which he doesn't seem to understand or recognize - do you calmly and clearly express these to him. or are you expecting him to intuit and recognize them without needing to be told ? The latter is a rather rare skill, especially in men.
What exactly is it, that you are expecting from him ? Simpl recogniziion that you feel bad ? Specific responses or actions based on that recognition ?
You sound as though you make a whole lot of assumptions, which might not necessarily all be accurate - how do you KNOW he will "blamee you for your feelings" or that he would refuse to join you in marriage counselling ?
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