Our expert says:
This sort of situation can be very frustrating, but there's no a lot you can do about it easily. They way you describe it, it sounds as though he fathered your daughter, but not the other children, and is not married to you. Is it YOUR house / home, and is he paying his way or expecting you to subsidize you ? If the latter, you would be free to ask him to leave, or at least make it clear that he must leave UNLESS he goes to the local hospital and sees a shrink and continues with treatment including learning how to control his temper and to avoid upsetting the kids. But from the sound of it, you feel dependent on him, though apparently he is not working (?) to care for the kids while you work ?
Does he cost less than a maid or child carer might ?
As for the effects on your daughter, the behaviours you describe would not be beneficial, buit she'll probably respond depending on how she sees you responding to the situation
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