Our expert says:
Then her illness would worsen what was already a bad habit. Your comments on how they may have needed to step in, i the previous, bad relationship, make very good sense - and in addition, they may feel guilty for having allowed him to get involved in that one, while clearly too immature to handle it well, an thus they may also be acting out of guilt.
Maybe starting with some joint couples counselling for you and your fiancee would be wise, and then consider expanding this to a few family sessions involving the intrusive parents.
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