Our expert says:
Get help from a support group for abused women like POWA. And get legal advice, free from a free law clinic at your nearest law school, or from the Family Advocate at the magistrate's court. He is not entitled to take any child away from you, the mother, unless he has proof that you are a danger to them - using children as weapons to hurt a partner is despicable benavious, and no court should support it. If he is being abusive and unfaithful, he cannot have any good claim for custody - and will have to establish a convincing claim for even having access to the kids for whose care he will have to pay maintenance, and the matter will be decided by any competent court on the basis of what is best for the child, not on what he wants in order to be spiteful.
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