Our expert says:
Thank you for posting your question. This experience that you describe, when you were young, which amounts to sexual abuse has naturally deeply affected you, so much so that you are unable even to perform normal bodily functions without feeling guilty or remembering and has left you to lead a life without intimacy with another. I urge you to get professional help to work through the feelings so that you can continue living a life free from this and to be able to experience sexual intimacy. Please contact the SASHA (South African Sexual Health Association) helpline Tel -0860 100 262 for referral.
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