Our expert says:
There are loads of such people, who may be colleagues or even relatives. These folks usually can't be happy even for themselves, let alone for anyone else. Of course there are excellent reasons why they dotn't get anywhere at work, but they prefer to convince themselves its all due to awful other people doing awful things, than face their own inadequacies.
And you don't need to respond to their ignorant comments at all. If it keeps more of the peace and limits their tendency to skinner about you, try non-committal ambuguous mouth noises rather than explicit comments.
A friend who is a Jungian Analyst, could suggest and imply more different possible meanings to the comment : "Really ?" than anyone else I've known. Really.
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