Our expert says:
This is not unheard of; to some extent it makes sense that you are attracted to her too as she is likely to be like her sister in some ways! She is, however, also different and as long as these differences are acknowledged and she is still someone you might like to be with, then there should be no reason why this is not okay. Just beware, if it is just a fling and it ends, are you prepared to loose contact with your late wife's family (it may be that there are children who need to see their aunt/maternal grandparents)?Do be sensitive to other family member's reactions though...this could be a little tricky.
Claire - SASHA
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