Our expert says:
The sort of job you have achieved by your own hard work and ability, if more senior than his, is nothing to apologise for nor be penalized for. When a court decides on setting maintenance, though, they would usually take into account the relative earnings of each former partner.
That he has chosen to have 2 other kids with 2 other mothers is not your fault, and irreleant in terms of the extent to which he should care for this child of his.
Would it be useful to consider going to a Maintenance Court to have the court consider his and your earnings and the necessary expenses of the child, and set a maintenance amount ? The main complication to that suggestion, I'd guess, would be that you are currently living in different cities.
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