Our expert says:
Bladder/kidney infections are probably resulting from irritation of the bladder which is just in front of the vagina. This is commoner if you have rough or frequent sex. At your age, you probably also have some vaginal dryness.You could try emptying your bladder before and after sex, use KY jelly and you may also consider an oestrogen vaginal cream. I don't think that you or he are harbouring any bugs. The Citrosoda may help. Also try drinking cranberry juice.
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