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Posted by: Shonice | 2008/09/26

culture vs hormones

hi everyone I' ve just lost my husband to cancer last month and according to our culture am supposed to mourn his death for a year, now my problem is that i find myself being aroused at times and the next best thing i do is to watch " our"  pornographic movies and end up masturbating. I feel awful but what can i do? i am a human being...

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Posted by: AB | 2008/09/26

Investing in a a vibrator would be no sin

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Posted by: Shonice | 2008/09/26

i have admirers but my heart is not ready for any kind of relationship that might lead to intimacy. i still miss my husband a lot and i fantasize about him and by so doing i reach orgasm, but i still can' t get over feeling guilty. If i were to invest in a vibrator - would that be a sin??

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Posted by: AB | 2008/09/26

Hey Shonive firstly my deepest sympathies on the loss of your husband. I assume you are indian. Yes i agree you are a human being and have needs, you shouldnt feel awful.
At least you are doing the right thing by morning his death and havent already found someone else.

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Posted by: L????????? | 2008/09/26

There is nothing u can do. Loosing your hubby does not mean u dont have feelings. I dont thinku doing anything wrong by doing that. It was going to a problem only if u sleeping wth someone during that mourning period. My culture says that too.

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