Our expert says:
Asking for forgiveness isn't an excuse for not explaining, or not trying to learn why the bad thing happened so that it can be prevented from happening again. Calmly, without challenging him directly, tell him that these ep[isodes are unacceptable, and that you want him to see a counsellor to get to the bottom of WHY these outbursts are happening, and how he might prevent them from recurring.
Again we see the damage caused by those who preach forgiveness as though it was a constitutional right for every transgressor, and a compulsory duty for every victim. If he won't talk about what happens or try to prevent it, then he has done nothing deserving forgiveness
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