Our expert says:
Sexual fantasies across the gender and racial line is quite common. What you are describing however has red flags all over it for your marriage relationship and the “work relationships”. I strongly suggest you seek the professional assistance from a psychologist dealing with sexual related matters as to discuss the happenings; your feelings and the implications of this on your life and your relationships. What seems like fun and just a “social” sexual relationship could turn out to be a lot more complicated and destructive if not dealt with rationally instead of on a sexual-drive and fantasy level.
For further information please consult SASHA’s website at www.sexualhealth.qw.co.za/dru. For referral to a professional in your vicinity, please send an email to firstname.lastname@example.org.
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