Our expert says:
Sorry, I was writing a rather good reply, when the lights went out and I lost everything I'd written. The Tshwane City Council is incapable of keeping the electricity system running properly, as this has happened three times in the last 2 weks, once for 3 hours. Yesterday I sat and shivered for another 3 hours in the dark, with no electricity, due to cable theft, which incredibly, took place nearby, in broad daylight, and under the nose of two private security guards, and around 10 government security guards, none of whom noticed anything, while a lorry drove up, men took out large ladders, climbed up two street poles, cut off the wires, and took them away, while the guards sat dozing in the dark !
Anyhow, your fiance's behaviour is deeply suspicious, of course.And he owes you a proper explanation and apology, and should agree to work with you in couples counselling, to sort this out. Whether or not the families are aquabbling about a baby name, is no excuse for whatever he was getting up to, and is NOT your fault - he must try to be man enough to accept responsibility for his own decisions and behaviour. It was no excuse for cheating, and if he was just visiting a friend, why would he have needed to lie to you about where he was ?
Surely both of your family's should be involved in helping the pair of you to sort things out, rather than engaging in silly and childish squabbles about a name ?
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