Our expert says:
There's a large diference between believing that there NEED be no secrecy between a married couple, and one partner actively snooping through the spouse's stuff, especially when she is away.
And he is an insincere snoop playing double standards, unless he is equally as happy for you to snoop through everything of his. Otherwise he's two-faced and does not believe what he says he believes.
Similarly with the pension - why should he, if he is a good father, want to claim the entire amount for himself ? its entirely normal for a spouse to want to leave some or even all of their pension to the children. Why is he being so mercenary ? And similarly, unless he is 2-faced, wgy doesn't he show you the documents to show that HE has left 100 % of his pension to you, for exactly the reason that he wants you to leave all of yours so him. What a phoney ~!
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