Our expert says:
If he is no prepared to consider that there are problems and that he might be a significant part of them, and he doesn't want to work with you in marriage counselling to solve the problems, consider separatio and divorce. You'd need legal advice - but maybe it's the marriage that is dying, and he need not do so.
Divorce can be good for kids, and is usually better than living in a miserable home. Some divorces are nasty for everyone, but usually only after mariages that were already even worse for everyone
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